The Bachelorette’s Ali Oetjen shares the REAL reason she hasn’t tried to find love since her heartbreaking split from Taite Radley
She’s been single since her heartbreaking split from Bachelorette winner Taite Radley two years ago.
And while Ali Oetjen, 34, may be one of Australia’s most eligible singles, she isn’t planning to find love again any time soon.
Posting to her Instagram Stories on Saturday, Ali shared the reason behind her choice to ride solo.
Happily single! The Bachelorette’s Ali Oetjen, 34, (pictured) has shared the REAL reason she hasn’t tried to find love since her heartbreaking split from Taite Radley
The blonde beauty first shared a question she received from a fan, who asked her how she lives her ‘single life.’
Ali replied to the fan: ‘Ever since The Bachelorette I haven’t looked. ‘Looking’ indicates there’s a need to find a man and when there’s a need it creates resistance to what you need as it infers there’s a ‘lack’ in that area.’
‘Be the woman you love, life the life you love, and you’ll attract love and a man that will compliment your life,’ she advised.
The secret to solo: Posting to Instagram on Saturday, the blonde beauty shared a question she received from a fan, who asked her how she lives her ‘single life’
Sound advice: Ali replied to the fan: ‘Ever since The Bachelorette I haven’t looked. ‘Looking’ indicates there’s a need to find a man and when there’s a need it creates resistance to what you need as it infers there’s a ‘lack’ in that area’
Daily mantra: Ali followed the post by sharing with fans her daily self-love mantra: ‘I am love. I speak loving words. I think loving thoughts’
Ali followed the post by sharing with fans her daily self-love mantra: ‘I am love. I speak loving words. I think loving thoughts.’
Ali and Taite, 31, announced their split via Instagram one year and seven months ago, saying they were ‘taking time apart’ and giving each other ‘some space’.
The couple shared near identical statements underneath selfies together and said they were making the shock announcement with ‘the heaviest heart’.
Case of the ex: Ali (left) dated her ex-boyfriend Taite Radley (right) for two before splitting in July 2020
Gutted: During an interrogation scene on SAS Australia, Ali tearfully explained to the drill sergeants how ’empty’ she felt after losing the man she considered her ‘soul mate’
Just weeks later, Ali joined the cast of Seven’s military-style show SAS Australia.
During an interrogation scene on the program, Ali tearfully explained to the drill sergeants how ’empty’ she felt after losing the man she considered her ‘soul mate’.
While Ali is happily single, Taite went public with his girlfriend in June 2021.
Moving on! Taite (right) appeared to debut his new girlfriend, Chelsea Fenech (left), on Instagram in June 2021, almost a year after his public split from Ali