Hundreds unleash on ‘selfish’ young groom for inviting his bride’s childhood BULLIES to their wedding: ‘They made my life hell’
- A man has been slammed for wanting to invite his bride’s bullies to their wedding
- He turned to Reddit to ask if he was in the wrong for inviting his school friends
- His fiancé said these friends used to bully her and ‘make her life hell’ in her teens
- The man said she was being petty and believes she’s ‘disrespecting his choices’
- Reddit users dubbed the man ‘selfish’ and said he was being inconsiderate
Hundreds have slammed a groom-to-be for wanting to invite his future wife’s high school bullies to their wedding.
The groom-to-be, 33, turned to Reddit to ask for advice on whether or not he was in the wrong for inviting a group of old friends his fiancé, 32, said ‘made her life hell’ in high school to their wedding.
He believes his fiancé is ‘disrespecting his choices’ by putting her foot down and ‘vetoing his decision’ and doesn’t understand why she is ‘hung up on petty high school drama’.
Reddit users have unleashed on a man who asked for advice on whether or not he was in the wrong for inviting a group of old friends his fiancé said ‘made her life hell’ in high school to their wedding
The couple, who have known each other since high school, were going through the invitee list for their wedding when the woman ‘went into panic mode’ after finding out her future husband had included her bullies because they were close in their teens.
‘She said she doesn’t want any member of this group in our wedding whatsoever, I asked her to explain and she claimed they’d heavily bullied and harassed her in high school while she was dealing with major health problems,’ he wrote in the Reddit post.
‘She said they made her life hell and caused her mental health permanent damage. I asked if she was serious because this was many years ago and everyone has matured by now.’
The couple, who have known each other since high school, were going through the invitee list for their wedding when the woman ‘went into panic mode’ after finding out her future husband have invited her bullies because they were close in their teens
The woman said she thought it didn’t make sense for him to invite friends he hardly sees anymore but the man insisted saying they were a part of his childhood and teenage years.
‘She said she’ll veto my decision but I argued that it was ridiculous that she is so hung up on some petty high school drama. She started crying saying I have no consideration for how she feels and felt like I was prioritising this group over her,’ the man said.
‘I refused to argue anymore because I felt that she keeps disrespecting my choices yet, I got called the selfish one in this whole situation.’
The couple are still in disagreement about whether or not to invite the high school bullies.
‘It’s getting exhausting because I don’t tell her to invite this person or that person,’ he said.
The post drew in thousands of angry responses from Reddit users unleashing on the man, calling him ‘selfish’ and ‘inconsiderate’ for prioritising his old friends over his future wife’s feelings.
The man said he didn’t understand why his future wife couldn’t get over ‘petty high school drama’ leading Reddit users to call him ‘selfish’ and ‘inconsiderate’ for disregarding her feelings
‘Let me get this straight, you want to invite them because ‘back in the day’ you hang out with them, but her being bullied does not count because its ‘years ago’?’ one person wrote.
‘Exactly, she should ‘get over’ her trauma because it’s ancient history, but the good times last forever. Also ‘she claimed’ they bullied her and caused her lasting damage…he’s not even believing her,’ a second responded.
‘Hopefully the fiancé sees his true colours and gets out before the wedding if this is how he’s going to be,’ said a third.
‘I know it’s your wedding too, but this people caused a lot of damage to her mental health. You haven’t seen them in years. So why are you prioritising them over your future wife?’ another asked.