Joanne Hegarty: The 10 rules I live and dress by

Getting older is a privilege we can never take for granted. And I much prefer being the age I am now than in my 20s, wobbling down the path of self-discovery. There’s lots of wisdom – about life in general and style in particular – that comes with the passing of time, and because I love a good list I decided to write my lessons down. Let me know what yours are.

1 Know yourself. This is the best advice I’ve heard recently. When you do, you tend not to take yourself too seriously – and your relationships with other people become more straightforward.

2 Don’t queue! These days I will never wait outside a store or a restaurant for the privilege of giving them my hard-earned cash. Our time is too precious.

3 Only buy what you love. When shopping for something new, ask yourself whether you really like it. If the answer’s lukewarm, walk away.

4 If you’re uncertain, go in-store, try it on, do a few twirls then leave. If it’s still on your mind a week or two later, invest!

5 Nail your personal style. One simple task can help you – start a Pinterest board and pin looks that catch your eye. Your subconscious does all the work, and very soon a pattern of your likes and dislikes will emerge. Work with these images the next time you shop.

6 Push your fashion boundaries. Just as it’s good to keep your mind open to new friendships, relationships and experiences, the same goes for your clothes. I love a curated wardrobe but you need a few style surprises tucked in there too.

7 Treat others as you want to be treated. I have no time for mean-spirited people and when I feel I’m in the same sphere as one, I make a quick exit. Knowing when to pick your battles is important. Sometimes saying nothing is best. Small talk is a necessity but I struggle with too much of it. I start glazing over and have to adjust my face in the loo.

8 Bag a pair of flats. I love amazing heels, but the way to make them last is to avoid walking far in them. From car to bar is a great rule. So is flats in the bag for walking.

9 Jewellery is a great form of self-expression. The right pieces will stay with you for a lifetime.

10 Approach the small details with great enthusiasm. From the lipstick you wear to the flowers you buy, these little things help to make life richer. Relish them.

 

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